Instead of assuming that you might know what's best or what might work for a person suffering from a particular chronic illness.... The best help anyone can offer someone suffering a chronic health problem is always understanding and patience, especially by not joining the legion of people who constantly bombard those who suffer from chronic illnesses with 'help.'
To learn more about fibromyalgia:
"Patient Voices: Fibromyalgia" (NY Times feature)
National Fibromyalgia Association (The best, most up-to-date information about fibromyalgia)
"Air Hugs: Fibromyalgia and the Power of Touch" (My Chabad article)
144 post I wrote where I mentioned chronic pain/fibromyalgia
NOTE: As I reiterate numerous times whether I post about my health, please subvert any desire to respond to this post with a suggestion of "things I should try" for my health. I will ignore and delete any such comments whether they are posted here or emailed to me directly. If you are confused as to why, click on the "chronic pain/fibromyalgia" tag and read ALL of the previous posts.